Let me start by saying that being chosen to be part of a bridal party is an honor, not a burden or a chore. A quick note to the bride before I lecture all bridesmaids: + Pick your bridal party based on the friendship (or family if you feel that is important). BUT just because these ladies are your best friends, doesn't mean they will be the best maid of honor or bridesmaid... and that's ok. Just remember that you're not friends because they will be the best bridesmaid. + Expr